EP #133: Siv Sivasamy - UK-Based Co-Founder Of The Mayfair Collective

Sivathasan “Siv” Sivasamy ( @siv.sivasamy ) is the New Business Director at Charles Square as well as the UK-Based Co-Founder Of The Mayfair Collective, a trusted circle of family office advisors that builds business relationships with purpose.

He joins Ara on this week’s episode of #TheTamilCreator to drop countless gems while discussing arranged marriages, why the Mayfair Collective was created, why modern day relationships are like microwave meals, how boredom can actually be a gift, the “let them” theory, having always been able to connect with people/how it naturally led him his career path, and so much more.

Follow Siv:
- LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/sivasamy/)    

Timestamps

00:19 - Ara introduces this week’s guest, Siv Sivasamy
01:20 - Siv’s formative childhood years; from Sri Lanka to the UK
05:50 - Do arranged marriages have more longevity?
08:13 - Why he chose an arranged marriage
11:16 - Modern day relationship dynamics
13:49 - How the age of abundance leads to shallow perspectives
15:08 - Is boredom a gift?
16:37 - Men struggling to have deeper conversations/a loneliness epidemic
20:34 - Andrew Tate, Adolf Hitler, Donald Trump, Nigel Farage, etc.
26:44 - Losing the fine art of debate and why you can’t force people to change
30:01 - How he ended up with Charles Square, what he does, and more
40:25 - Mayfair Collective; what it is, how it works, and Ara gets rejected
47:51 - Siv hangs up on Ara and calls back?
51:41 - Creator Confessions
1:00:32 - The Wrap Up

Intro Music

Produced And Mixed By:
- The Tamil Creator
- Yanchan

Written By:
- Aravinthan Ehamparam
- Yanchan Rajmohan